Thursday, February 18, 2010

February 18, 2010

Karneval Time

We were so busy with Jim on leave and having Karneval that my Valentine candy gram was overlooked at the office. We got it Tuesday...

It's been a fun week. We are exhausted and READY to move. The sun is finally out and the snow is almost gone. Spring is coming and so are bigger and better things... Lots of goofy Karneval pictures to look at.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

February 11, 2010

Our New House...in Two Weeks

I just noticed that the last posting of my blog has a Christmas tree in it and we are now into February. So as much as I am trying to resist updating until the move...here we go.

We've been busy packing and planning our move and the weather here has been relentlessly cold and snowy. We are so sick of it! The house is all boxed up, Karnival is this week, school vacation is coming, and we are awaiting word of Jim's potential deployment, all right in the middle of a crazy and stressful time. But let's be honest, when is life ever really calm and smooth sailing anyway?

The kids decided to help me pack...

Rhiannon has started cheerleading for the base basketball team.
Just like her mommy...

Team Mascot Maybe?

So right in the middle of all the mess, Jim received word from home that his Aunt Sheila is not in good condition. From about a week or so after Brad was born she has been in a coma and/or permanent vegetative state. She was bitten by a mosquito that carried the EEE virus. It is a virus common to New England especially in the heavily wooded areas. It causes swelling in the brain and spinal cord from high fevers and usually people will die from it or be permanently disabled. Jim found out there was a tanker flight going to New Hampshire last weekend and thought it a good opportunity to go home and pay his respects to his aunt and hopefully soon she will be free to get the peace she deserves.

At the very last possible minute, I decided to join him with the kids. We surprised all of our parents and got to spend the weekend at home, completely unplanned and completely content to see our families and friends, celebrating new lives and wishing the older ones a peaceful rest.

Jim and Luke Playing at the Union Villa

Family

Sunday night, we caught the first half of the Super Bowl and then hopped the flight back to Germany. We landed in the morning and drove Rhi across the street to school and got right back to the daily stress. It was one of the best trips home so far despite the winter weather and the sad news because it was unplanned and it was over the weekend, a perfect time to visit. Now we are home and busy as ever.

Coming up this week is Karnival. Brad's school celebrated today and our village will celebrate this weekend with a parade and lots of debauchery. In fact, we have three Karnival events to attend this weekend alone. Then it's time to finish up the packing and move on out!


Friday, January 15, 2010

January 15, 2010

A New Year and New Beginnings

The last month has been physically draining for all of us and really really cold and snowy here. We continually alternated being sick and managed to get it under control for the restart of school. Over the break Brad decided he did want to use the toilet after all and I am happy to report a 97% potty trained child. He has also been telling me to "chill mom" rather frequently. He started saying "Oh I almost forgot..." and will run off to do something, and "Remember this day..." and proceed to tell me a story about a day or event he remembers.

Rhiannon and I were reading a story about a farmer complaining that his wife has an easier job than he and she told me "Boys do not naturally know how to take care of the house." How very insightful she is!!!
Jim hit a curb with his car which resulted in a seemingly minor blown tire and faulty airbag and turned into a six week long visit to the BMW shop and repeated chats with USAA about whether the car would be deemed a total loss or not. In the end it was repaired and has only just been returned to us.

We had a mishap with our heat, where I forgot to turn it on one night and we had to spend an entire day freezing as it is a system that only operates at night and blows out little by little during the course of the day. Did I mention that is has been snowing about an inch or less almost every day since New Years? Also during this time we have been keeping our eyes open for another house; which brings me to the new beginnings part...

September was our one year anniversary of being in Germany and our beautiful old farmhouse. At the end of every year of your rental, the utility companies send a statement and you either owe money or get money back depending on your energy usage and your monthly payments. We owed... a lot of money to the electric company. Our heat is electric and rather tricky to operate and we were constantly fiddling with it and thought we had it figured out, keeping the house at about 68-70 degrees. Long story short, electric heat is not as economical as gas or oil heat and by living in an older house, we probably lost a lot of energy... I feel my frustrations rising again as I write this.

Anyway, our first thought was to move immediately and find something newer, but we love this house and the pain of moving was too much for us to think about having moved six times in six years. So we sucked it up and paid our bill and proceeded to reevaluate our electricity usage. When it got cold we started monitoring our heat wattage per day conserving as much as possible and not heating the rooms we don't use or the hallways and bathrooms and in December it still started looking like we were going to have another off the wall bill come next fall (and we were freezing in our home). The kids were/are always laying on the heaters and wearing bathrobes (us too) and it has become too much for us. We decided to move (because we still have at least 2 more years here) but only if we found the perfect "dream" house. A few weeks ago, we did.

After some serious thought, we are going to move on March 1. A major drawback is that we have to do it and pay for it ourselves but we have many wonderful friends who are willing to help. At this point we are still in the beginning stages of packing and chaos and we just want it to be over. It is still freezing outside and it is sucking the motivation right out of me. We are also sad to be leaving our current landlords. They have been such wonderful people to us. On a positive note, our new house is also "newer", has (gas) floor heating and a backyard with a pond, a fireplace, sauna and plenty of rooms for us to play and sleep in. It is a little pricey but we think the benefits outweigh the risks especially as far as our future heating bill is concerned. So wish us luck with our hopeful new beginnings...and our streak of not living in any one house for more than two years is still intact!

Christmas

New Years

Friday, December 18, 2009

December 18, 2009


Family Times

Some of the pictures are from our trip home. I'm happy to have both old and new memories to share with all of you. The rest are from our many holiday festivities that will outlast our energy for them I'm sure. Today was the last day of school for the kids. Seems to me we never got two full weeks off for Christmas Vacation. The weather here is -273 Kelvin (the temperature at which all life ceases) and my house is a not much warmer 59 degrees fahrenheit. Brad has decided he doesn't want to potty train after all. After 6 months and almost using the toilet exclusively while we were in Massachusetts, his newfound interest is in flushing it 1000 times a day and releasing his bodily fluids onto the floor.






The tree is up, the halls are decked, and Rhiannon has admirably been trying to give away to her friends many items from her inflated inventory of toys in the hopes of clearing out space for the shiny new items (lumps of coal judging by her attitude lately) that Santa will deposit under the tree next week. And so it goes that we will spend Christmas here with our European family...no fancy trips, just spending time together and being thankful for all that we have (all idiosyncrasies aside) and that we are not alone during this holiday season.






While this past year has not been the greatest, we are still very blessed with good fortune and opportunities beyond our wildest dreams, but we must continually strive to be better people for our families and friends in the coming year. The season of Yule is a celebration of the rebirth of the sun, the light of the days will grow longer and so the light in our hearts must grow as well. We reflect on all this past year has brought to the table and resolve to change the things that will help us grow as people, and also to accept the passage of time and the lives that go with it. To all of our families and friends, may this holiday season and coming new year bring the peace and happiness that we are all searching for. We love you and are thinking of you always.




Speaking of reflection...Our kids are now about the ages of Alyssa and I in this picture. Time really will get away from you if you don't stop and enjoy it once in awhile. That being said, I am about to venture out into the cold with the kids and watch them play in the 2cm of snow that just fell! Get that hot chocolate ready for us Jim!